Showing posts with label Goals. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Goals. Show all posts

Tuesday, August 27, 2013

Get Your Life Together! Make Your Bed!


 
The other day I was in a cleaning mood.  Does that ever happen to you?  Sometimes—and this does not happen often, just to clarify—I just want to clean everything…some cleaning fiend takes over my body and before I know it, I’ve scrubbed my whole bathroom, cleaned my room, taken out the trash, done three loads of laundry, and gone through my giant pile of old mail.  It’s awesome.  The last time this happened, I actually made my bed, too.  And I liked it so much, I made it again the next day, and the next. 

Confession:  I never make my bed.  Like, ever.  What’s the point, right?  But I've been making my bed for about a week now, and I love coming home to a neat little made-up bed so much that I can’t wait to make it every morning knowing how satisfied it makes me.  I feel like I have my life a little bit more together.  This sounds ridiculous, right?  Well, I actually looked this up to see if the habit of making one’s bed was correlated to happiness or something—some sort of psychological phenomenon—and what do you know, it is!

According to one study, making your bed every day can help you be a more productive person; it even suggests that it can make you a happier person!  Making your bed is known as a keystone habit, a habit that promotes other good habits, like flossing, sticking to a budget, etc.

After a few days of making my bed, I can tell you I’ve been a smidge more productive (and have therefore had some more free time), kept my room neat, and been more organized.  Plus, my room feels more comfortable and relaxing at the end of the day.  All of those things make me happy…so yeah, maybe I am happier now that I make my bed!

Make your bed and see what positive habits it cultivates!

Monday, December 14, 2009

Read-y?

I usually read around 20 books a year. Just to challenge myself, I made it a goal to read 30 in 2009 (see list to the right). As you can see, I won’t meet that goal, but no matter. It’s not really how many books you read; the important thing is to always be reading. (Next year, I'm planning on reading Les Mis...it's a big one!) Last year, I wrote that The Road was my favorite book. This year it was the classic Jane Eyre, which I am sure will permanently be on my top ten list of favorite books. (Seriously, I read it at red lights...I literally couldn't put it down.)

According to an Associated Press study, one in four adults read ZERO books last year. We are not exactly devouring literature! So if you've been feeling bad about not reading (or finishing) that book that's been sitting on your nightstand for who-knows-how-long, take comfort in knowing you're not alone.

Or don't. Reading helps you write better, improves your vocabulary, stimulates the imagination, and generally makes you a more knowledgeable, cultured, and well-rounded person. Half of the world is illiterate, and if you don't read, you might as well be, too.

I know many of us will make resolutions to read more next year. Let's commit to turning off the TV once in a while (gasp!) and start a new reading regime (‘Readgime’? Anyone?). I'm excited to start my 2010 reading list on this blog (and in my fun new journal, seen above...cute, right?).

I will leave you with a crazy fact…if you work 40 hours a week and sleep 8 hours a night, you have 72 hours of free time each week. May that encourage your reading endeavors in 2010!

Friday, November 28, 2008

It was a very good year...

Last week while Nicole and I were at lunch, she asked me what I want to accomplish next year. What a great and important question, and I can't tell you how much I love that she asked me that. It just reminded me of what a focused person she is; I know she knows exactly what she wants to do next year, and that she'll do it! Yet, it was a question I hadn't given much thought to. Now that the wheels are turning, here are some things I want to do next year:


PERSONAL

Spend less money (read: go out to eat less!).

Watch every movie on the AFI Top 100 list. (I'm about 60% there, without effort.)

Swim and run more (And by "run more" I mean "run").

Compete in a few swim meets.

Improve my tennis game. (Is this possible? I really am that bad.)

Read more. I hate putting a number on this, but I want to read around thirty novels next year. I usually read around twenty.

Write more-blogging and journaling.

Do more things involving art history-writing, studying, visiting more museums; it's one of my biggest passions and needs to be cultivated more.

Go to San Francisco. It's been a few years and it's one of my favorite cities.

Go to New York City.

Go on a PEACE trip.

Go to a Padres game (never been).


MINISTRY

Help ten girls start flourishing small groups.

Equip and empower adult mentors for Crave and get college students connected with great mentors.

Support those who will be involved with Crave's discipleship program, and complete it myself!

Do whatever I can to create a tight-knit community of women at Crave.

Empower and encourage our Crave leaders and volunteers and grow our volunteer team.


On New Year's Eve, I used to get a little depressed; I'd always look back and dwell on things that I did wrong, the times I messed up, the relationships that were strained, the things I didn't accomplish, or the expectations that I put on God that were not met. In the last few years, my attitude has changed and I've decided to look ahead; I think, "This next year is going to be the best year ever." And it always is...my 25th year rocked--God answered several specific prayers, I got an awesome new job, went to London, made new friends, took some risks, learned and grew and trusted...

I'm excited about 2009. It's going to be a great year...the best yet.